With the desired outcome clear, I listen to what my client is saying and I distinguish whether what they are saying, and what they are doing, is in alignment with the desired outcome.
The degree to which the client is committed to that outcome is the degree to which they will be willing to hear the distinctions I am making and generate or choose new ways of being that align them with the stated outcome. The clients' willingness to practice taking actions that result in having fulfilled the commitment will also become clearer over time.
Western spiritual teachings often suggest that to be spiritual one must desire to have no desire.
This desire for no desire is a desire, none the less.
In my Eastern spiritual studies, I learned that to live a life of desires fulfilled is to live out ones purpose was a moment of deep understanding.
To live a life of desires fulfilled is to be a joy-filled person. Your joy creates more joy for those inside of your life. When one lives in joy their truest purpose presents itself, as you are now open to its gifts and ready to step into it fully
It’s in noticing what is driving the desire, uncovering if it is a desire of ego, or of heart. What is the purpose of this desire? How will it enhance your life and the life of others? Will this desire cause happiness or hurt? Observing the underlying truth of your desire is a truly empowering practice.
➤ working 30 hours a week with 3 days off to pursue other interests
➤going on a trip of a lifetime
➤healing a troubled relationship
and so on...
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Focusing on the here and now of this present moment:
➤ how do you want to feel?
➤ where do you desire to go?
➤ how do you want to get there?
Looking back will not move you forward. You will set clearly defined, measurable goals. These will allow both you and I to know when you have achieved your desired results OR if an old pattern is playing out, moving you further from what you want most.
Someone desiring more fulfillment in their life will ask:
What will be included in your day/life/relationship when you are feeling fulfilled?
What will no longer be included in your day/life/relationship when you are feeling fulfilled?
Having a clearly defined, measurable goal allows you to walk straight towards it and know with certainty when you have met that goal.
This is where we begin.
Fulfillment may mean:
One desire is not better than another, it is yours and yours alone.
With the desire Aligned, inspired actions collapse time and move you towards your desired results. As a Transformational Coach, my focus is on which actions will move you in the straightest line. Which actions are aligned with not only your desires but who you are as a person at your core. Moving you into energetic alignment, and aligning you with your highest self will ensure you are in an environment which will inspire you to take action and realize success.
Shifting your current pattern of thoughts which are impacting your ability to move forward, as well as supporting your understanding of where these thoughts originated will allow you to become aware when they begin to surface again. This new awareness lets you consciously choose if you will fall back or if you will shift into energetic alignment.
Providing you with the tools to shift the way you have been interacting with your internal environment (thoughts) allows you to experience different, desirable results.
Often what we want (a thought) does not align with what we want to do (how we want to feel). The desire to be fit is real but the desire to be comfortable is stronger!
In this case, rationalization and justification of all the reasons you’re not able to honor your commitment to fitness will creep in.
As we move forward together we will distinguish the thoughts and feelings, which interfere with actualizing your deepest desires. Shifting back into energetic alignment will ensure you are in an (internal) environment which will inspire you to take action and realize success
Aligned Actions bringing Results
While your desired results will naturally happen in the future, our work together focuses on the here and now. It is how you are, what you do and the things you think about today which create your tomorrow. To talk about the past unless it is relevant to how you are experiencing the present is not helpful. It is only supportive to speak about the future when it can enhance your ability to create that future.
Having an embodied experience of our connectedness to all things, I see an infinite beauty and well-being in all, just as it is. With this way of seeing I am able to see the aspects of our “self” that are not currently supporting our personal and spiritual growth. Witnessing and recognizing our natural human defence mechanisms and the strategies we sub-consciously use to protect our ego, distancing ourselves from our most evolved self, allow me to reflect these back to you.
Transformational Coaching focuses on the Present.
MEETING YOUR DESIRES