You’re wandering around saying yes to what you wish you could say no to and you’re saying no to what you wish you had the courage to say yes to.
Take a moment and breath into that.
The life you are living is barley resembling the one you desire to be experiencing, leaving you feeling stagnant and stuck.
If we are being honest, is it really much wonder?
How could it possibly be any different than it is when your actions are what they are?
You can’t want it, and expect to get it while continually saying no to it.
Nor can you wish you didn’t have it while continually saying yes to it.
You see, so many people sit around waiting for the perfect time to begin. They wait until they are ready to start. The ironic part is that they only ever get closer to it when they actually START.
Start what? Start whatever it is they are sitting around waiting on the perfect time for. The moment you say yes to what you want in this life is the moment it becomes your reality. You can have it now or you can continue to walk around asking, “when will it be my turn?”
You turn comes when you stand up and declare: “It IS my turn. This life is my turn, I am choosing now.”
I don’t actually believe you are waiting for the right time or to be ready.
I think you are protecting yourself from falling flat on your face because it’s more comfortable for you to sit around stagnant where you are than it is to go all in on your life and fall flat.
Those that succeed in anything do so after falling flat on their face dozens of times. The quicker you fall the faster you’ll get to where you want to go. The longer you stay standing where you are, the deeper you plant your roots and the harder it is to pull yourself out of the comfort of that place.
The mind should be kicking in right about here saying “no no Angie, I’m very happy right where I am”. The ego should start to defend all the reasons that I have no idea what you are going through and all the things you’ve tried and all the reasons that you simply can’t right now.
And then there is your Spirit, which is desperately trying to hush those two just long enough to remind you of the truth of what you desire and deserve in this life.
She and I are allies. I’m not concerned with your mind, I couldn’t be bothered with your ego.
Your spirit….. I’ll fight for her all day long, day after day.
The life you are living is barley resembling the one you desire to be experiencing, leaving you feeling stagnant and stuck. How is it I can be so certain? Because I lived it for many many years. I know what it robs of you day after day.
I want to leave you with a contemplation that will support you in listening to your Spirt, that will hush the ego and be inarguable for the mind.
When saying yes to what you wish you could say no to and saying no to what you wish you had the courage to say yes to, ask yourself this.
Am I valuing what I value?
Am I showing the universe through my actions what my yes looks like and what I actually want more of in my life?
If you are living in a season of not being sure what it is you want to say yes to, if you’re not even sure what you want in your life…… that’s ok. You’re not alone. Here’s my Design My Life worksheet to help you see exactly what you want in just a few minutes.